So...I've never had a long-term relationship with a guy (my first ever relationship was with a guy in 10th grade and lasted 3 weeks, and I have a guy who expresses mutual interest in me, but both of our lives are hectic and so we won't be able to see each other often enough to be "dating"). I've dated a girl for 9 months, but never a guy for any significant period of time. Is there a simple way to express interest without knowing if the other guy is homosexual/bisexual? I don't want to get beaten up, but at the same time, I'm not going to let good opportunities pass...
I have always been to shy to ask them. I usually wait to see if they are interested and go from there.
Well you see, All homosexual people share a subconscious Telepathic bond which which they can sense each other. (According to data derived from Chap. Blame him. His doing.) Anywho; Take a chance. Best tactic in life.
So I have an interesting though by no means unique problem. A christian (no offense to the christians here) keeps trying to evangelize me and "save" me, converting me not only from my own religious beliefs, but also trying to change my sexuality. Any idea how to deal with this?
Ahahaha. No. It's none of his/her business. For one what the hell is he trying to save you from? If they're referring to Hell, then I'm not sure you should even give them a reply. That's ridiculous. If anything, kindly remind them it's almost 2012 for crying out loud. How Pagan can you get? Also, shoving his/her religion in your face is wrong in its own right. Just stand your ground, be firm, but don't be aggressive about it. Might want to remind him that homophobia is so last century, darling.
To try to evangelize people or save them from "the hell" or even to change their sexual preferences.... is a nonsense.
People have a right to live the way they want to live. There's a reason I don't go spouting "SAVE YOURSELF FROM HELL" Nonsense. It's because it's bull on a maximum level. Live life the way you want to, not the way a book tells you.
Tell them they are nosy and should mind their own business. No seriously, Just ignore them. You have the right to live your life the way you want to, not the way they want to. It isn't right to live by someone else's ideals. So yeah, ignore them and tell them to stay out of your life.
Are you serious? I'm Christian and all, but wow... It's these kind of people that make me want to vomit up my own being. They have NO right to mess around with what you believe in, and they wanted to change your sexuality? Sheesh, what a load of hay. My advice, say "No." to anything he/she might say. They can not interfere with who you are now, nor may they even attempt to change your inner being. You are who you are, and no one can say otherwise. Ignore those kind of people, just ignore them with a passion.
If you let it get to you they will keep it up and try to beat you into submission. Like its been said, let it roll off your back and ignore it. You could say that you like roasting marshmellows so it will be just fine.
Really. These radical christians stop at nothing it seems. You are your own person live YOUR life how you see fit. (bad example: I'm straight edge, more then half my friends smoke. I don't care cause it's their life.) I say it's best to ignore them. Just tune them out, they should see that you no longer care and give up. I hope your situation gets better. -- Sent from my Palm Pre using Forums
I would like to ask everyone to please Drop the subject of religion. It's really depressing. Also, we've gone over this once; It's an endless cycle.
