The Gay Thread

Even if he's joking, the posts are in bad taste. I disapprove.

 

I take it I missed some posts that ended up deleted. There's sort of a gap in sense between some of these posts.

 

Coming in a bit late, but oh well. I can't honestly say what sexuality I am for sure. I am dating a guy right now, and feel emotionally and physically attracted to him in my conscious mentality, but I can't be certain it's real. I'm not sure if I'm just doing this because I'm desperate to be wanted, or just want to try to prove to myself that I'm open-minded, but I really don't care. Whatever my genuine feelings are, all I know now is I love him right now, and he makes me happier than anyone or anything else has ever been capable. Whether said happiness is forced or not is also up for debate.

What I think I am is a panromantic demisexual. Can't be sure I'm using those right, but if I am it'd explain what I feel I am right now.

Also, consider this my opening post to the more social side of the forums. I'd like to try and get involved around here.

 

I freely admit that I am a lesbian

 

I figured it would go here.

 

is this thread dead o: ?

 

It does that sometimes.

Threads will fall off the RADAR periodically.

 

I take your radar and eat it.

 

It gets bumped whenever someone has something new to add to it and whatnot. Feel free to resurrect as needed, no one will mind as long as it's relevant.

 

Well how do I find someone when im homosexual and everyone around you is hetero?

 

Well, you could ask or simply throw it out there that you're gay or inform someone that you're attracted to them and see if they "swing that way." If you're in a community that persecutes gays, I don't recommend that though.

 

Sadly, most communities are persecutive towards gays.

 

Hello,I need some help.
Something is wrong with me lately.I'm a male and I don't find other males attractive at all! I mean i almost throw up while thinking about kissing and etc. with another guy.

But when it comes about thinking sex,that someone would **** me(anal),it isn't grouse at all for me

I don't think I'm gay,because i don't find anything attractive about men,only sex.One time I almost did it,i was ready to meet up with a guy and have sex with him(my hormones where so strong then that i wanted that so bad).But then I started fighting against myself.I started to talk with some people and found a little answer:
Maybe that's because i don't know what it means to have a girlfriend(I never even normally hugged a girl),what it means love with a girl and etc..I only know what it feels like anal play,because when i was younger i tried anal play with a pen and other thing that leaded me to a better orgasm.But it isn't gay,it doesn't involve same gender interaction,it is just pleasuring youreself.
I had hard time in school for a year,i was been called gay,rainbow(it means gay colors),because of my looks,then i changed my look and everything went well then.Maybe because of that i have this problem?

I don't want to be gay.I like girls,I really like them.Now there's like a good side and a bad side of me.One saying don't do it,wait until you find a girlfriend and everything will be okay then,and other side says do it nothing will be wrong.Maybe im bisexual or something?Maiby i should talk to psychologist in the school?

Sorry for the typos,i not very good at english.
If you want to talk to me heres my skype: lamborgini81

 

First off; watch the language here. Just a bit of a warning.
I definitely recommend you seeing a psychologist if you aren't sure. Explain it all to him. You may get some help.
Sometimes it just takes a while for something to start, people get afraid of it and start to run from it.
Don't run; get some help with this issue.

While I wouldn't run around trying to engage in sexual activity with every guy I meet, I WOULD try to find out why I'm thinking those thoughts. Perhaps you are bisexual. Only you can truly find out the answer to that question.

I sincerely hope this helped.

 

Ya,thanks
I wanted to write sorry for the language,but i thought it was alright.

 

I think Californication's latest episode has a great comment about what you are explaining. One of the male characters explains how he enjoys such acts, but the only thing holding him back is his wife is uncomfortable with it. He says he's straight (married to main character's ex-wife) and says he doesn't find it gay at all.

Honestly, I wouldn't worry about it. What you enjoy behind closed doors is no one else's business but yours. You shouldn't be ashamed of it, but others don't have to know about it.

In regards to being gay: Just because you enjoy the above doesn't mean you're gay. You're not attracted to males, so I think you're straight and simply experimenting/exploring yourself. Again, your private life is your own and doesn't need to be shared with anyone. I wish you the best of luck in any of your endeavors.

 

Basically what Aynine said. Viewtiful explanation. Couldn't have said it any better.

 

I just don't know how to thank you!
You said it so well,that you put a smile on my face,thank you again, i feel very relieved :}

 

Not much to add, except: My oversimplification - You like what you like. Don't sweat the bigger picture.