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  1. ShyBrony

    ShyBrony Practically Part of the Site Itself

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    I don't really know what's going on with this debate or argument or whatever it is but I would ask, what is the point of this thread? Just wondering. If you're looking for advice I'll give you something light. I too am depressed, I'm sure it's not to any degree of what you're feeling, but what I would say to maybe feel somewhat better is focus on what makes you happy. If anything, focus on the good. Don't think things won't get better, believe they will if you wish to strive for them.

    If that's too optimistic, I would say accept your situation. When I hit a real breaking point emotionally what I do is I say, things are messed up, but there's so many things I can't change even if I wanted to, but I accept that fact. Accepting reality and accepting the worst in life doesn't make you optimistic, it should help you realize on what you can change in your life and what you want to do.

    Again, I don't know what you're searching for but I too feel nobody cares about my own life. I struggle with this every day but I feel as long as I can accept myself, I'm better than a good percentage of the people in the world.

    I for one hope you can find what you're looking for and try to not let other people push your emotions to extremes. While this may be hard, even impossible, will power is a virtue.
     
  2. LostAgain

    LostAgain A Pony Every Pony Should Know

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    I do have no moral high ground. But at least I am not shunning one who merely informed you of my depression. Where you instructed to act? No. Where you informed that I was begging for attention, but my family is actually happy? No. Do I actually live a happy life, and all this is made up?
    Well, I may be good a lying, but I'm not that good.
    Sorry for your time, good sir! That is a currency one cannot repay, and I wish you luck in your life!

    I am not being sarcastic anymore. I am sorry that you were offended by me being open of my feelings. Of course, replying to something you don't agree with just to tell me I'm wrong, and then calling me a troll?
    I'm sorry, it just doesn't all fit.
     
  3. Ace_Sorou

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    I'm just basking in the glory of calling out someone who clearly doesn't want help, and just wants to make people feel bad. His own actions prove it.
     
  4. LostAgain

    LostAgain A Pony Every Pony Should Know

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    Oh, don't worry about me, good people. Now that I think of it, I think I only made this thread to inform, not to ask... not much of a thread, is it?
    Well, I'll take anything you'll give me. I'm sorry if you find I'm rather stubborn, I tend to be.. angry.
     
  5. DanSze

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    According to the other members of this fine conversation, this was a case of attention whoring, which is in turn a common genre of pseudo-trolling.

    According to me, I don't really care what it was.

    According to the object of this thread's attention, he left.

    In either case 1 or 3, your advice is probably wasted, however good it may be.

    I'd just like to add that accepting is good as long as you don't give in to it. That never ends well, that latter part.

    SO MUCH EDITS
    I'd say, if you want some sort of advice on how to handle the situation, you just take note of those that wish to give it instead of signing you off as just another attention seeker and PM them. There was someone sympathetic to your cause earlier. Try there?
     
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  6. LostAgain

    LostAgain A Pony Every Pony Should Know

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    Love the comic, it was actually really funny!
    And I do hope you don't hold a grudge. I am sorry, and the last thing I need is someone here who hates me. This is sort of a sanctuary for me.
     
  7. cpl.puddingpop

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    Ok. now im pissed. But i will try to be nice.

    Telling people you feel like crap is fine. ive done it before, multiple times actually. It usually helps a lot. but when you argue with every single person trying to help you, then odds are youre going to both make people dislike you and think youre a troll, and feel a lot worse about it afterwards. maybe we were a little harsh on you, but it doesnt help when you act so immaturely. we're just trying to help. so let us.

    i know how it feels to hate everyone, and to think everyone is against you. that was me for a long time. but hating everyone back, including those who try to help you only makes the situation worse. im not demanding anything, im just asking you be a little more grateful. most of us have been through a lot of crap too, we know what we're talking about. just stop trying to reject and argue with everything we suggest. If you dont agree, then just ignore the advice. but whats the point of asking for help if you dont even try to take any of it?
     
  8. DanSze

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    Because clearly proving to the person you are acusing is clearly the most productive thing to be doing.

    Now, where's my sammich?
     
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  10. LostAgain

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    You are calling me immature now?
    I do believe I stated I was twelve. Perhaps my smooth talking has thrown you off.
    But don't worry, this is not at all the first time I was, even though my age was known, treated as if I should be older.
    My mother did the same thing.
    Just bear in mind, 12.

    Wait, I asked for help?
    When?
     
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    When you posted the first post.

    Did you think we would NOT help?

    Now, I need to sleep.

    So, I'll go and do just that.

    If this conflict is NOT resolved by this time next DAY (12 hours) I shall punch a message of facepalm into my keyboard and send it here.
     
  12. cpl.puddingpop

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    im assuming this is directed at me


    why else would you make this thread? if you were really gonna end it all, then you'd do it. you wouldnt need to tell anyone anything, your actions would say it all. the fact that this thread exists just means you arent 100% sure about going thru with this.


    and even if you werent asking for help, my advice still stands. i know youre 12. i know life has probably been tough on you (though i cant imagine for the life of me what could possibly make a 12 yr old suicidal). but please, if youre gonna talk about big boy things like suicide, please act slightly more mature.
     
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    Mate, to be perfectly honest, I don't give a **** if you're looking for attention, trolling, etc or not. So let's put all that aside for now shall we.

    You seem to have chosen a mindset and aren't willing to deviate from it. You ask for help, but turn everything anyone says into proof that humanity is ****, the world is ****, life is ****. If that's all you're willing to see in a situation then there's not exactly a lot of hope in changing is there, you've created your own self-fulfilling prophesy.

    You pass off advice such as "look on the brights side" as crap. Well, news flash, if all you ever focus on is what's wrong with people and world of course you're going end up how you have. I'm not ignorant, I'm not going to tell you life is all sunshine and rainbows because it's not, and it's not easy either. But you have choice, either continue focusing on everything you hate in life, spinning people's words so as to turn them into the horrible heartless creatures you want them to be or see the world and it's people for what it really is.

    There is plenty of good in the world open your eyes and see it because it's there, whether you believe it to be so or not.


    And before you go branding my words and advice as crap, know that I've been there. There was a time when I would wake up and couldn't think of a single thing to look forward to. I mean, why should I? I hated the world I was in right?
     
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  14. LostAgain

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    Big boy things?
    I may be twelve, but I'm not a ****ing retard.
    **** you, man. However much I wanted to die before, it's gone up.

    I am branding no one's words as advice and crap. I am sorry for my actions before, I had just finished a screaming argument, and I was rather angry. I understand that life is not easy, and why should it?
    But however much good you see, I don't. Good people like the ones who understand what I'm talking about should not be talking to me. Go out, and do something good. Preventing suicide is not as good as, say, giving food to the homeless, or helping clean up a park. If you want to show me there is good in the world, go ahead and show me, not tell me.
    As far as I'm concerned, the only people making an impact these days are the bad people like myself.
    Hear that, everyone? I'm a bad person, I won't deny that. But why stoop to my level? Go help people, not tell me how much of a bad person I am.

    And I realize that the good people of the world still exist, but they do not make massive changes. And while I strongly believe that world peace is a joke, why not play along?
     
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    youre old enough to talk about suicide, but not old enough to act maturely? brilliant.


    if you want to know why your life seems to suck so much, just take a look at this thread. youve managed to make 4+ people, guys who dont know you at all, hate you. Maybe people ignore you because youre an immature downer, not because everyone in the world is a terrible person. If you want to kill youself go ahead, thats your choice. but maybe if you changed yourself instead of blaming the world for your problems, you might actually enjoy your life.

    up to you.
     
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  16. LostAgain

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    Hey wait... did I just cheer up?
    Bipolar or not, I do feel better.
    Hmm... This is quite a feeling.
     
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    We generally give a reason for locking: While we're not against threads like this, we do discourage them and the prescence of foul language and aggressive comments is not something we'll love or tolerate.

    Consider yourself warned also; Further offences will prompt a ban.

    Bipolar or not, rules are rules.
    www.everypony.com/forums/faq.php

    Please refer to and start abiding by them.

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