Hi everypony, I just lost a whole nights sleep over something that I realise now is quite serious. Spoiler: My Problem I now realise I have a very complicated problem, not many things can deprive me of sleep for a whole night. That problem is...I am developing a Crush at school dun, Dun DUUUN. But seriously, I lost an entire nights sleep thinking about her... I'll start by describing her, her name Is Casey but everyone calls her CJ. To me she has a beautiful face and I quite like her personality, you know why? Because it is exactly like Fluttershy! She is quiet, keeps to herself and can be very helpful. She used to be in my Swimming team in Summer but now that it is Winter I don't see her all that much. I am pretty sure I like her xD The only problem is...Will it even work? I mean, my parents might not approve, because they might b worried that my grades will be affected, or they might think I am too young, I AM only 15...Do I even know what love is? Another thing is I don't even know if now is the right time to take action, with exams coming up next week...I also was never able to ask a girl out. Plus, the most important part, I don't even know if she likes me too, for the moment we smile and greet each other warmly when we see each other. But that might be about it. So basically I have this impenetrable wall of things that could prevent me from dating her. There is ONE more crucial thing for me...I don't want to nor do I like break ups, I am trusting that the person I date is going to be the person I marry one day, which is why I am worried about this, Will we be able to keep a relationship for 5 years? I'm sure if she is right for me, we could...I am just so confused and for once I have NO IDEA what to do... I'm off to school now, I'll read possible solutions when I get back, I thank you in advance for supporting me because I know you will.
Well, I'd say first and foremost, Simon, is not to think about it so much. Especially the marriage part. If you're at the point where you're not even sure how you feel, it is way, way, WAAAAAY too early for you to even think about that. One step at a time. Expecting to marry the first girl you date is pretty unrealistic, not to mention all the unnecessary pressure it leads you to lace upon yourself. The most important part is to calm down a bit. You're 15, and it's way too early in your life to stack all that on yourself. But then what do I know? I've only ever had internet girlfriends, and even then, I've been single for 7 years.
I've long since stopped caring about things like that, but that's mainly because they've long since accepted I don't think as they think. That, and I'm 25. :derpe:
I shall tell them so. @Yami. 1. I'm only 18 2. They don't know about my beliefs. 3. Nothing more, I just wanted to make 3 numbered list.
really? I knew you were older but not that much older then me, but I have never been any good at guessing peoples ages.
Ah. I didn't know they're aware. I'm compulsively honest when it comes to things like that. When I started drifting apart from their beliefs, I had to tell them where my thoughts were going. It's strange... Yep! Don't worry about guessing ages. I'm terrible at that too. For example, I had it somewhere in my head that Simon was 18, but he's 15.
The brony documentary's Kickstarter has surpassed its $60,000 goal in just 6 days! It's at $63,000, and it still has 24 days to go!
I seem to be fairly decent at guessing ages. Somehow I always saw testy as mature for his age. I guessed 15-17 as soon as I saw him posting. Out of interest, what age would you say I come of as, if that possible, now that you know my age.
I guessd you had to be 20 I thought you were older then me im usually not wrong about that, it's coming up with an age I struggle with although we are close to being the same age.
I take that back. They actually reached the goal in only 3 days, not 6! And Xan, I thought you were 21-23 when I first saw you posting. How old did you guys think I was? Anyway, bedtime for Yami!
