I know the feeling, usually I never say anything about my problems ever. I just did that whole thing on impulse really. Funny thing is I'm a perfectionist so you can take anything I do and I have the same problem still.
Hey, I'm sorry to here that. I hope you'll be okay. And don't you forget that we are all here for you, too!
Tha harshest critic of an artist is always themselves. Try to keep in mind that if the "client" is happy, it's a job well done! I don't mean to sound rude, but you take requests? Do you have any openings?
Nah, I gotta be the one people talk to, so i gotta stay on here, I'll be fine. Thanks for the concern though ^^
There's never such a thing as too many requests. My services are always open! Just a little problem... The problem that I posted sort of got the best of me recently and now I doubt everything I draw so I've been studying tutorials and other artists vigorously. The good thing about this is I've improved since then, but the bad news is the more I dwell on the subject the worse it gets.... Enough of me being a downer! All I need for requests are the following: Reference of the OC, Pose wanted, and Expression. Anything else you want? Just ask :3
All I can say is to learn not to be so harsh upon yourself, things will feel much better then, trust me.
I try, but it's in my nature, I'm a perfectionist. The most I can do is try not to let it hurt me too much but instead use it to make me better. It's the best form of motivation to have.
Ok serious post incoming, Now 90% of my posts are in text game so this is diffrent for me I have very few friends IRL, I have real problems making friends, I hardly see my friends outside school and I don't even how much I know about them or viaversa, I also belive I got a low self esteam and Im constally terafrised of underachiving event though I do it all the time, During holidays I hardly leave my room and hardly see anyone outside my immediate family. # I have never had a girl firend and I find all this kind of stuff difficult Now im running out of thign to write em wait em no ok now to him post...going to hit it enter dose nothnig gdos it?
I have many of the same issues; I've lived as something of a recluse for several years... But one thing I can say that helped me was when I started going to college, I really started breaking out of my shell. I still have few friends, but these things take time.
...I just want to know what you were actually typing in that question. Seriously... I can't understand it if you don't tell me properly.
Well I keep on saying It will be fine later but nothign is happening, also by collage you mean UK collage - 16-18 or the US collages which are more of unis here 18+ Because I jsut went though collage, I spent ever day sitting in the computer lab next to this girl I liked, I mean we talked, occasioanly, and... Im finding it hard to find reason why half my life hasnt been wasted again. ...I need to find that padlock psperclip anypony
I ahve low self esteam issues OK I get this feeling npeople ever want to hear aobut my rrpboblems I find it hard to tell anyone I was delaying pressing vubmi creat now my keyboard is goign to get wet
The ages are somewhat misleading; I was 24 before I started going to college. When I was at school I *&^!ed up my life badly; I ended up with severe agoraphobia and bad depression. I was stuck in my house almost 24/7. Now I lead what you might consider a 'normal' life. What I mean is, changes take time. You do need to work towards them, but you can't rush them. They move at their own pace - I still have trouble in crowded places, and even still have panic attacks. But things are slowly getting better for me, as I am sure they will for you.
*Fixed; used auto-correct.* It's ok. Just be positive. Anyone here on the forums would like to hear your problems and we can solve it one way or another. You don't have to delay pressing submit we would like to hear what you have to say. As for the keyboard idk. All we care about are you and every other person on these forums.
Ripp, the easiest way to talk to people is the hardest - just talk. Find out what you have in common - classmates let's take for example - and start off talking about that. Yeah, it's hard, but nothing worth while in life is easy. I've taken the easy way in life far too long, so I know what I'm talking about. And, yeah, you're going to bungle it once in a while, say something stupid, but the key is, don't let a mistake mark you for life. You're 18 - trust me, you got a long life ahead of you. And it will be better later - it just might be better in a different way than you think. I thought I'd have a little better life at this point, and it turns out I do - just not in the way I thought. I don't have enough money to travel the world, but I can do that online. I have many great friends right at the touch of a button - my computer. And I have a great show to watch when I'm feeling a little down. Do you have any hobbies? That's also a great starter for conversations. Are you at what we call College here in the states? Just wondering if there might be clubs to join there. And don't worry too much about a girlfriend just now - just focus on getting to know people in general. That's enough of a goal without worrying about girlfriends. (Ooo, wow! 400 posts! Almost at 500!)
