The physiological effects are understandable but here's the thing - If you were hated by someone, making a thread like this is probably the worst thing to do. It comes off as attention-grabby and certainly you're putting yourself out in the open for their hired hitman to whack you. These are my 2 top no-no's.
It gets easier, trust me. When I first joined the site, I tried to remain as cold and detached as possible. I figured it would make the inevitable rejection easier. Imagine my surprise when the rejection never came, and I even ended making friends. I can't imagine not being a part of this community now, but that never would have happened if I hadn't decide to take a chance and let people in.
I'm sorry to see you're leaving. I'm not exactly sure I understand why you feel you need to, but alas. Such is all things. Cheers, and good luck if you do pack up and head out. Sent from my SM-P600 using Tapatalk
I hope you'll reconsider. I hate to see someone go because of something that could possibly be resolved.
Alright, fine. Tyro's managed to guilt me into it. I'm coming back in a few days, but I need a little time to cool down.
First you mad a thread about and leaving and now another one that you really want to leave. Don't go though, you're really fun to have around in the chat. I think you might find out that people are really nice around here. But, if you think you really want to leave because people hate you or offended you in some way. Sometimes I think its a good idea to take a break and I'm pretty sure thing will get better for you at some point. When I joined this site, I felt like I was alone and all that. After awhile things got better for me. I have the feeling things would get better for you too. I still find it disappointing that you think people hate you here. Hate is strong word to use. I think its a good idea that you should feel confident about yourself. Don't let other people bring you down. It make things worse. Trust me, this is one of the nicest forums I've been too.
I guess I don't have to say anything... but... I kind of feel like I do. Hopefully the mods will let me say this. If this message gets edited or something, I'll understand though. I've felt the same way you have. Really. I have. You can believe me or not but I really have felt the same way you do. Not on this forum though. From the other MLP: FiM I recently left. I pretty much felt like that practically everyone on that forum hated me. I'd be lying if I said that I don't regret leaving. Because I still do. Yes, I can continue a RP thing I was doing on there, but it's not really in a way that makes me truly "happy" or satisfies me. Honestly though... I know they don't. Not everyone there hates me. I'm sure quite a few of them do, but, not all of them. I just wish I handled everything better but it's too late now I guess. The moderators on there won't even talk to me anymore about it. In the end, I know that not everyone on that forum hates me. I know that now. I just wish I knew that before I ended up leaving that forum possibly for good. Just trying to let you know that you're not the only person to feel like everyone on a forum hates them I guess. I don't know if that'll help, but, either way... if you decide to leave for good this time, I guess I understand. That's pretty much why I left the other MLP: FiM forum. Because I got tired of getting crap from seemingly everyone there. Don't take that the wrong way though. I'm not trying to say you should leave. As I said above, I regret leaving the other forum and I still do. I just can't do anything about it because the moderators there won't talk to me about it. All I'm trying to say is don't make the same mistake I made. If you decide to leave though, please consider coming back at some point and I wish you well in your future endeavors.
Just so you know Vulpine: Disagreeing with =/= hating. I can dislike metal music and still like you. I can like using a controller better than a keyboard and mouse, and still like you. When you get very upset about someone disagreeing with you on those things, and when it seems like you are without the capability to see things from another viewpoint, or at least agree to disagree on SUCH a trivial matter, it definitely raises concerns. But I still don't hate you, I can probably count the people in the world I hate on one hand. Just a suggestion for the future, perhaps if you didn't say things like "There is no other way of thinking besides my opinion" or "Your opinion is stupid, it's clear mine is superior" then people won't get mad at you in the chat? Just saying.
If you ever have an issue with a member concerning rudeness or impoliteness, it's safe to contact a moderator and ask for advice on what to do. There are so many people on this forum that if you ever do have an issue with a couple of members, you can always talk with other people and usually even the people you do disagree with will end up being pretty nice about it after all's said and done. D-d-d-d-d-double kill! Not at all! I hope to see more of you!
