Now I feel worse about not being in a relationship. I was on da bus yesterday coming home from school. I just so happened to be on the same bus as my friend Aliyah, who happened to be sitting with her boyfriend. No big deal right? Just one problem, they were being...affectionate. Making out, her head in his chest, stuff like that. Then some girl on the bus says bus "This is gonna blow" so all of a sudden people start getting off the bus, I didn't know what was going on, but if they're all flooding out of the bus, usually not a good sign, so I hop off the bus as well. So while we're all waiting for another bus to come in the extremely chilly weather, they start making out even more. So now I'm really starting to feel bad. Fast forward 15 minutes, another bus came and they let us on for free (they do that when you're on a bus that breaks down). Much to my delight, she got on the bus but her boyfriend didn't. I beg of you all. Killeh meh.
What could possibly be at the end of this road? You're on EP. The worst it could be is a one eye a teddy bear. May I ask why you seem to be so.....what's the word.....into relationships now. I mean honestly, it's not that big of a deal. Here's a fun thing to do. Follow this now. Girl #1-Popular girl, I didn't have a chance, I never asked her out or anything. My fault, learn and move on. Girl#2-Shows interest in me, I then screw it up so royally it could never be fixed. Learn and move on. Girl#3-Girl at school, pretty much hung out between all our classes, I of course screwed this one up as well. See the pattern? Girl#4-Girl at work, I get the nerve to ask her, she gave me the same thing you got. I was all boo woo for about a day. Moved on. Girl#5-Girl at school gets job at my place of work. After a few weeks, we start going out. YAY right? No, It would have been cool if I knew she was into drugs before, remember I'm all straight edge and junk. Any way in the end she just stopped talking to me and found a new boyfriend. SUPER FUN Girl#6-Different job, but again I stupidly get involved with a crappy girl. No major drugs this time, just alcohol, but the stop talking thing was all the same. Now here's the fun part. Up to girl 4 I was trying to get a girl. No luck, after that I stopped trying and thinks kinda seem to work. Looking over this maybe it's best to ignore me. I managed to get 2 crappy girls. Do the opposite of what I do. Also time gap for this was like 5-6 years I think.
Allow me to try and answer that: Spoiler: slightly off-topic The human mind is a powerful tool. If it wants something, it'll try its best to get it. Of course, it doesn't have a physical form. So how does it do anything? It manipulates your thinking. Let's take Radaboy's example. Recently he has been thinking about relationships. So since his mind wants a relationship, it is pointing out other people's relationships to him. Probably the same amount of people were in a relationship before as there is now. However, now he wants one, his mind is pointing out the relationships of others in an attempt to try get himself into one. Whether this is a blessing or a curse, it's up to each one of us to decide. On topic, don't give up Rada. You have plenty of time to find someone. Or you can do what I do and not give a damn. Which ever works for you.
I want laser eyes. I've yet to see anyone with them though. Well, that's an honor I've yet to achieve.
That's funny. I tried getting girls in high school, and every single one of them gave a short, resounding "No." No cushioning of the blow or explanations. Then I stopped trying to get girls. 7 years later, still nothing. ._.
So I kinda found this thanks to Bloody Bizkitz. I've heard this series is good. anyway, here ya go [video=youtube;D0IFsfsyBGU]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D0IFsfsyBGU&feature=youtu.be[/video] I have not watched the video, I have no idea what's in it. It's a surprise.
My suggestion is to come into the talk with multiple topics in mind in order to break the ice. Have a good range of stuff to find out what she likes and doesn't like. Oh, and be yourself. Using a facade will get difficult to keep up after a time. It's also uncomfortable.
So that one did happen, and went of for two months. (I can necrobump my own thread if I want). Then we broke up, and now I'm still single. Still sucking. But like a boss.
