Ok, so I've got another relationship question. I know I always seem to post stuff like this, but I trust yall to give me honest opinions. Ok, so my girlfriend and I got together officially at the beginning of November. She says I make her happy and she was the one to change the relationship status. Now all she talks about is her ex, and how she misses him and still loves him. They were together for 16 months so I know she wouldn't just get over him. But she keeps calling and texting him; telling him she loves him and stuff. What should I do? I've told her that it hurts, but she doesn't seem to care. I really like her, and I want it to work.
I can't really give much in the way of advice. I had something similar happen, for me it ended bad. She went to him and just left me alone. Though of course my dumbass tried to be with her again and the same thing happened. I really have no clue what to tell you friend. I wish you the best though.
I'll tell you the same thing I told another friend with a similar (Albeit not exact) situation. If someone you like constantly makes you miserable and doesn't care about your feelings and utterly discards you even though you've said it makes you uncomfortable, you let her go. You're better off finding someone who will listen to you. That's my piece, as sorry as I am to be so blunt.
Now I wouldn't say she's making him miserable, I think what he's trying to say is that she's constantly bringing up her Ex despite being in a happy relationship and it's starting to bug him. The crappy thing about this is, there's nothing you can do about this. She needs to get over the guy herself and the most you can do is be a good boyfriend to her so you can speed up the process.
Show her that you're a lot more awesome than her ex. Seriously, just talk to her again about it. If she keeps on doing it, you have to decide if you're going to ask her if she'd rather try again with her ex. It's unwise to be with someone who is so preoccupied with the thought of someone else.
Break up with her. She obviously still likes him, and it's unfair for her to be leading you on if she obviously likes him more.
To be honest, i would not stay with her. It is okay to grieve about a lost relationship, but if im not ready i dont start a new one.
Well, thank ya'll for all your support, but it's over. She left. I was expecting it though, so it didn't hurt so much. It's probably for the best.
