This is pretty much exactly what keeps happening to me. Except there is no girl that I obviously like, so that makes them a lot more bold. Or maybe that's just their personality. But either way, it's really awkward when there are three girls who hardly know each other trying to hit on me without anyone actually noticing that they are doing so (IDK, that's how it seems to me). In fact, twice I've been told by my friends that they really liked me, and I felt like a total heel saying that I didn't really feel the same way. Fortunately I haven't lost any friends because of this, but I am constantly worried that more of my friends will suddenly like me and increase the awkwardness exponentially.
I have, like, A female friend. This makes life much easier for me. Though I've only been asked out about three times, and the one person I did go out with... It went horribly. She... Made me Ice-Skate... I've never been out with anyone else.
Oh you guys. Ice skating, ouch... In reality, nobody really cares how you dance, nobody cares if you aren't a pro dancer, all you have to do is enjoy yourself and the rest falls into place.
http://nyan.cat/dub.php Kinda catchy...considering I've been listening to it for the past 20 mins. Also my heart exploded after I read that fluttermac.
Oh man, ice skating... I know that feel, bro. I have a lot of friends that are girls, but no girlfriend at the moment. Still looking for that special somepony.
my relationships arent complete successes i must admit. had a girlfriend who i just didnt feel it with any more after 6 months, and i knew what she was like so i kinda dumped her in front of her mother, so she could comfort her. well it went like that in my HEAD...not real life. by the time i left she was curled up in her mams arms and i was asked to leave... ok one down. NEXT we have the nice girl with the crazy *squee!*y best friend. they both liked me, i picked the nice one obviously...and the *squee!*y girl didnt take it very well. went insane. i couldnt handle it and the nice one agreed. that ended unspectacularly. next we have the best friend who is extremely fickle. asked me out, i said yes. one week later dumps me. the NEXT DAY. "i made a mistake and i didnt want to **** it up!" ok, lets try it again... same thing happened again. third times the charm right? wrong. she had been depressed one day and when i finally got her to tell me what was wrong...she turned around and said i cant have a reationship at the moment its too much, weve just found out my mam has cancer and its tearing the family apart. i didnt know how to react, but i accepted it and offered what help i could, but she wouldnt take it. i know her mam, so at least i know she wasnt lying but WOW. :/ and now...the head over heels girl. ive liked her for years, but got rejected in the past by her, i started talking to her more this year and got closer to her, she knew i was still crazy about her, and her friends got involved and tried to make it happen. she kind of got with a girl when drunk, which made the entire school start talking about her as if she was a disgusting lesbian. when that whole thing and a couple of crying episodes past which i helped with. she was drunk and i received a text which said "i think i like you, were so close now i just cant ignore you" but i kept talking and i knew for a fact she still had no idea. and now last night i was drunk, hilarity ensued, but i also started talking about our feelings and whether there was sometihng there or not. "oh **** it!, what on earth am i doing just sitting here! i like you, but i was just so afraid something would go wrong. so theres your straight answer after everything i put you through". im talking to her on monday about it away from her friends. i hope it goes well. my rant is over. sorry to take up so much space. just felt like venting it all out
I haven't got a girlfriend either. I have a few female friends I can talk to but no girlfriend. The way I see it, they're too much effort right now. I've got the rest of my life to find someone, so I might aswell enjoy my freedom for the next few years.
You are quite alright about the rant. I just had to comment on the bit in bold, that is always a lie and I wouldn't feel too bad for this girl. When this line is said it means, "I'm not looking for a relationship with you right now." But hey, live and learn right?
Yeah, and while that doesn't make her a bad person, she could have just said what she means. I once broke up with a girl because I thought we were just interested in different things (I wanted someone to hang out with and have actual conversations with, she wanted something more of a strictly physical relationship). I broke up with her, and said, "Hey, I'm really sorry, but I just don't think this is working out. I feel like we want different things. You didn't do anything wrong, or anything like that, it's really just me, and I think we should see other people." She said nothing, walked away, and started spreading rumors about how I must be gay because I didn't like her. That didn't really bother me (because I've got nothing against gay people ), but talk about immature and self-centered. I didn't like her physical advances, and she couldn't handle that, so she assumed I must not be into girls at all. That's like saying she's the perfect girl, which is far from the truth. I've had plenty of bad break-ups to the point where I really get what you're saying. Relationships are tough.
I've never had a Girlfreind before...And I am too shy to ask one out. EDIT: I am going to bed now, I'm feeling a little down so hopefully when I fall asleep I'll be fine. Plus my internet cuts out in 5 mins so bye.
dont worry about it dude. i am shy as hell! my friends help me most of the time. couldnt do it without them. youll find a really nice person and when the times comes good luck this forum is so therapuetic! bright colours, happy ponies, and very nice people. feel like i can say anything here. its brilliant. no worries that my secrets will spread to unwanted ears all across the school
Tombstone just got a rival for my favorite musician. [video=youtube;QcyVOJ67Exg]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QcyVOJ67Exg[/video]
My favourite currently is All Levels at Once. His stuff is just so happy and stuff!! :') [youtube]Ysrc7xquQ2w&feature=plcp[/youtube] That's just me, personally though... His stuff is good. It probably doesn't really compare, but I just like his stuff more for some reason.
