Where do I Start? Where do I Finish?...Well, I might as well be able to contribute to this conundrum. Here we go... Let me ask you something? What friendship to you? Two people who have a bond for each other on that who share the same thoughts, interest and liking of one another for their hearts to never be separated? Well if that is the case to this, then I think that is put into questioning. Let me be get to the bottom line of the meaning of this thread topic here. For the past couple of months, I've am dealing with the friendship problems. Basically, I'm am at Thin ropes with my Racist friend and me getting annoyed and angry for his racist, I start wondering over the years to be with him. I wish he was the John i remember back in the day, but nope. I haven't seen the boy in over a month and the last time i saw him after that, was 2 months. The fire in my heart with this kid's friendship is so dim that i'm afraid it will burn out. I'm am just boggled that what i used to love to see in this boy as a fun and playful person...Into a Person I despise of. All of his friend have abandon him for this but me. I thought there was still a chance to save this kid and to be friends to the end...But after hearing the saying on what came outta this kid's mouth, Sweet Celestia, Man....Wh-...Wh-...Why? Sorry i'm lost for words for the help on this kid. Now my oldest friend who is the brony one. Granted i thought he was a true friend. Now that debatable for my side of the story but when you friend is getting harassed by others that you are unfamiliar with. Your suppose to put your hoove down and have a little chit-Chat with the harassing victim. I chat believe that this is all happening on Minecraft. All i'm is dropping some stuff on this guy and you know? just having some good old fun. Ugh. I'm getting off topic. Sorry for that. I apologize deeply for that. but anyway, this guy is swearing at me and Abusing his Admin Powers at me and Keaton is just going invisible and ignoring the situation as it's going on. You know what Keaton? Say something. The whole server has turn against me and I can't enjoy, build or destroy anything.....You know what? I'm Done. I'm Done with these Childish games for yours. Keaton you College drop out, you to me is something really don't want to call you and it starts with a "L" but Stand up for your friends..Your real friends that are in a distance region where you can contact with each other. Not your internet friends that you met at Pokecast, granted that is one way to make friends but still. Don't act like I don't exist. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ " The fire of friendship lives in our hearts As long as it burns we cannot drift apart Though quarrels arise, their numbers are few Laughter and singing will see us through (will see us through) We are a circle of pony friends A circle of friends we'll be to the very end " ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Now to you guys. Is there any help from anypony here that i can get help from these two? I don't want to lose Keaton but John....My friendship relationship for him have been thin for years but still?
You completely lost me with that last paragraph... The most straight forward answer I have is, if your friend is going to be racist, mean, etc, then your friendship isn't meant to be. That's the way I see it. I don't like associating with those types of people, let alone let them ever remain my friend. It also sounds like your making this post through anger, so I'd sit or lie down and take a breather for a little while. That always helps me clear my mind and think of what I should do to solve the problem.
Ah. I completely understand and this racist friend is a reason why me and one of my old friends lost contact with one another. Personally, I am not a fan of that kind of person, though some don't mind it, but for me, it's a nope. Let's see. I suppose I'll just state some things that could help you out. First: The point of a friendship. In all relationships, there is something that the other wants, whether it is a good or bad reason; money or just to help them be happy. If you see that this friend isn't giving you something or there's no point in the friendship, then you two should go in different directions. Now... This explanation is a very cut and dry one, and is very blunt. Another way of looking at it is that if he/she is doing something that you do not agree with, then let them know that you're not alright with what they are doing. If they don't change and then see you as some guy, then he isn't a true friend. A real friend would never be a jerk to another and would always be there for him. Granted some do it in different ways, but they care. ^^ Which is the defining difference. ALTHOUGH! Some things you can't change, and that's just the way you are. SOME things you can let go of and see it as their character, but if it is something that COULD cause you to not be friends with them, then it'd be good to let them know. Second: Just because a friend might ignore you, doesn't necessarily mean they don't care. Sometimes friends are scared, even if they have power. I've seen it happen many a time. Again, if you see something that they are doing (Or NOT doing) then bring it up with them directly. That way they know you're talking to them. If a friend is down, and you're a TRUE friend, then you will help them back up. ^^ Now... In some cases, there are times when friends can't help another; for reasons that may have to do with morals, or because it's something that the other feels they should be a part of. This is a bit... contradicting in itself, but the element that makes it so is one called the pony (human) element. I hope this helps some. ^^
Wow Turk, I'm sorry to hear that you are having these problems. I honestly don't know what to say. 'm not good at giving advice on this situation. Basically I'd follow the advice already posted on here.
