Well only being here for a short while but this is happening in my life and not here but I Feel forgotten or Ignored from my Longest, oldest best friend. Granted that he acts cool, all the time and act like hes all that but really, son? Your not. Only one friend of mine still talks to me is on places like facebook but that's it. Ever since i added like two brony videos and made my profile picture as rainbow dash. Things have change. Thank god i got my old friend, Keaton. (brony) *Sigh* You ever wonder what is wrong with people, sometimes? When it comes to understanding each other? Shoot. Some of my friends come to Facebook and the minutes they see me. *snaps fingers* They Vanish. What did I Do too you?....What did i do too you? I Really like to know, why you ignore me. Don't Run from the issue. It never makes the pain go away. I might not be the only one who feels this way, here but if you like to comment on your behalf, then by all means.
You have friends from high school who are no longer your friends? What are you doing now? EDIT: Also, what's with calling people "son"? You're 19. You said that in the age thread too. *cue Fluttershy* I'm a year older than you...
... I've actually had a very similar heartbreaking situation .__. You see; I had this childhood friend, we literally knew each other since we babies. When we were kids we did pretty much everything together and hung out after school at eachothers houses, played video games together, RP'd before we even knew what RPing was (we just called it pretend), went to several water parks and theme parks together, got into basically everything the other would like. When I liked Custom Robo, he had to get into it. When he got into wrestling, I had to start watching. This was our friendship, it was perfect. I thought we'd share this wonderful friendship together forever. ...Then, in 2008-ish, we started to drift. He started to prefer other friends to me, hang around me a lot less, make excuses to why we couldn't hang out, etc.. It only got worse. He began doing drugs and revolving his life around it, even worse, his own father knew about it and didn't care. By time he got a girlfriend in autumn of that year, he was avoiding me completely. I grew jealous and started to feel like I may have been in love with him after all this time, but then I didn't really want a relationship.... I just wanted our friendship back... There is no happy ending to this story, sadly. He's changed completely, has new friends, prefers the company of his GF, moved to the other side of town and never says anything when we pass eachother even when I try to get his attention. So yeah... Best friend in the whole world gone sour. This has happened to a lot of people I've known since childhood, actually. I feel like I'm the only one around here who hasn't reduced themself to a a least common denominator. I think this situation with my best friend has had the biggest long term effect on me though. Try not to dwell on the past and what could have been though, okay? worry about the present and what could be, and how you can make the best of past mistakes to make your friendships the best they can be, make ones that last forever! *hugs*
I had a two best friends in middle school. Now both of them hated the other cause of past issues between them. Well my one friend Mike hated Cody but he would tolerate him cause he was my friend. Cody on the other hand would avoid Mike at any cost. Now I was able to keep them both as friends throughout until high school. They both despised each other and I was forced to make a choice. I didn't make a choice, I slowly drifted away from them both for about 3 years. In my senior year of high school, Mike was expelled and Cody just never showed up. I haven't talked to either of them since then. Cody and Mike are into drinking and drugs now, so I don't really feel like trying to get a hold of either one. I don't use facebook ,so alot of people from highschool ,I don't talk to anymore. It sucks to lose friends but I found another best friend and he's like a brother so I guess something good came of it.
*Gets up on soap box* People, as sad as it sounds, some friendships don't last very long. A few years, people change, they drift apart, and before you know it, you wonder why you haven't talked to old whats-his-name recently. Worse if you try to catch up with whats-his-name, and you start to wonder whatever did you see in him. It happens. Its sad, but it happens. You just have to enjoy the friendships you have for however long you have them. I have been lucky. I've had three people that I've been friends with for more than ten years. One has been for 28 years, and my wife for 27 years. My third friend I've known for 30 years, but, sadly, he passed away suddenly a few years ago. That's why I say enjoy what you have now - have adventures! Tell them you love them! (Well, if you know them well enough, if you've been hanging out for a few weeks, that may be a bit soon) And don't dwell on the past or future, for that takes away from the present. I also wanted to say that if a person stops seeing you because of some television show you watch, then that person really isn't a friend. I've had this done to me, and, sadly, I admit I've done this to people - not necessarily TV shows, but other reasons, too. I don't agree with everything all my friends say and do, but I accept that we're going to be a little different - that's what makes it wonderful! *Gets off soap box, shakes his head at wall of text*
