and stress be my enemy

great... just great... just when my life is at its roughest, more crap happens. To couple with upcoming college and all the planning i need, i also have to deal with the fricking government! i had accidentally backed into a dude... apparently 1 month later the guy decides to file a report on me... so now i have to deal with court. This shows you never to trust a dude with a BMW who seems like a nice dude. it wasn't even a hard bump. it was like a license plate tap. the only thing there was was the sound of the cars touching, no jerking or sudden stops.
guh... anyone have any ideas how to fix this list?

Preparing for College at NIU (100+ miles away from me)
finding a job near my Dorm
Dealing with family issues(personal)
Having car issues (AC broken and ignition failure)
Legal problems
Possible license removal (due to said legal problems)

EDIT
I just noticed... how did the dude even have my info! we never swapped insurance or info! and does this mean i committed hit and run? wow... like life itself isn't hard enough.