random thoughts about college (warning: contains whining, viewer discretion advised)

First year of college over. Here's how it went down:
First semester: was in a few clubs, had a girlfriend, tons of parties/social event, wrote my first novel. Sounds good, right? Well, my grades were only meh.

Second semester: really involved in a lot of clubs, no girlfriend, few parties, all As in all of my classes, really cool internship, barely got to write at all.

I don't know which path to follow. I feel like certain people who shall not be named put too much pressure on me to get good grades and be traditonally succesful that detracts from me actually enjoying college life, but at he same time I care enough about grades that I don't want to go back to them being eh. I'm torn. I know peeps have much worse problems, that why I put this shiz in my personal blog. Anypony else feel like this in college?