I've been in a similar situation a few years ago. Until you know more, all you should do for now is try to relax. Just breathe slowly and clear your mind.
Oh my word, that's terrible news, Lu! I seriously hope your stepdad's okay, but for now, let's take it easy and have some comforting hugs. *Hugs Lu gently*
Try to relax, Lupr. No need to panic until you learn more. I got to go to work, sadly, but just talk to the rest of us, we'll help you through this. I'll catch up tomorrow.
I can't relax. I'm sorry if I'm dragging this out a bit, I hate the feeling of just going on and on, but I'm honestly just on autopilot, I don't have any idea what to do. I can't cry because my sister might break down too, but I'm trying really hard not to. The feeling of not knowing is horrible.
I don't know what to say or how to comfort you, I've never been good at that, but I'm here if you need me.
Luprony, we all love you here So much. We're going to get you through anything life throws at you. I know you have done it for me, now it's my turn. You're too much of a nice [erson to be down. *hugs*
No guys I'm sorry, this is a pony forum it's not the place for this kind of talk. I appreciate that it's wise to share our probelms, because we're all here to help, but just dumping this situation on here and moaning about it isn't going to solve anything. Whatever happens will happen, regardless of how much I sob about it on here. I just kind of didn't know what to do, so I posted it here.
I'd offer some real advice, but the way I deal/cope with grief is a bit callous on the outside. The only thing I can say is, channel everything into positive distractions, like cleaning. I usually clean when I'm frustrated or sad. It obviously has no effect on the situation, but it might help you cope. My brother likes burying himself in work. On the other hand, my sister tries to confront everything; by comparison.
Just let your emotions out, that's always good.... Much love Lup...we're all your friends here, so we'll always be here for you...
I'm uncomfortable with feeling like everything is about me. I live for other people and making them happy, it's what makes me happy. I've always been like that, I feel rather rude when it's the other way around.
