That's how it was with my man and me. I had to do all the chasing. He "didn't think a girl like me would like a guy like him" so he never considered that my flirting was honest xD and thought I was just being nice. Sent from my Inspire 4g using Tapatalk
TEACH ME! I can never tell when a girl's flirting with me. I don't notice subtleties and my mind always finds a way to take the most depressing path when it comes to that.
Aww, honey xD Well, first piece of advice is something kinda mean that my oldest sister told le boyfriend. "Get over yourself." It is possible for girls to want to be with you, so stop being a pansy and accept your awesomocity. That's her basic just, anyway xD It's a lot easier to pick up on the subtlety when you accept that there's a chance for things to go well lol. That being said, it's hard to explain flirting. Everyone has their own style. Also, I've always been one of those blunt women who speak their mind. I wear my heart on my sleeve, and I always wear tank tops. =p Sent from my Inspire 4g using Tapatalk
"Get over yourself," huh? A tall order, considering how I am. I am more than willing to try, of course. I just have no idea where to even begin addressing that.
Eh, I don't see redeeming qualities in myself. I don't really see relationships going so well with me. Basing that on many past rl 'friendships'. I'm just a social and mental wreck. I've accepted it, and I move on...
well i'd say pretty much start slow and try finding ways to be more comfortable doing what you really want to
I know it's one of those easier said than done things, but it is quite honestly the best advice I've ever heard/received. You just have to trust in yourself and believe that you are so freaking amazing ^_^ Sent from my Inspire 4g using Tapatalk
You have to learn to love yourself before you can truly love another person. Just spend some time working on /you/. I've met some of the most amazing people ever here, and it breaks my heart that they can't see themselves the way I see them. Sent from my Inspire 4g using Tapatalk
My biggest fear there is overdoing it and becoming one of those douchebags I so dislike. But as I said before, you're already helping with the self-confidence thing. I'm already on my way to feeling good about myself. The biggest hurdle is to transfer to relations with others, which is more difficult. But! One step at a time. I've been a brony for 1 month, and already I've gone from being cynical and bitter to pooping rainbows. That's quite a transformation for that kind of window. After all, you know what they say. You can't force chnage. It'll just come as it comes, certainly helped by certain things (bronies).
I'm so happy that you're seeing a positive change in yourself ^_^ Change is scary, and it's hard, but trying to better yourself is always a noble and good thing. Also, the fact that you don't want to become a douche means you probably never will. Confidence doesn't make you an *squee!*. Being an *squee!* makes you an *squee!* =p Honestly though, you have it right. It takes time. One step at a time, one small detail at a time. If it makes you feel any better, I'm like the poster girl for 'before and after'. I used to hate myself. Thought I was the most boring, plain, idiotic person around, and all that jazz. Them one day I decided that I didn't like who I was. So I changed. Instead of being a person who hated everything about myself, I became the kind of person who loves themself; flaws, quirks, and all =) Sent from my Inspire 4g using Tapatalk
There is one sole reason to why I won't get in a relationship any time soon: Romance. Honestly, I hate the stuff. Childish, I know, but I ain't shifting.
really? i don't like the dumb cheesy stuff, but recently i've really been loving it, it's probably just because i found the right girl for me
To each their own =) The world is a machine, and machines require many different parts to work properly. Sent from my Inspire 4g using Tapatalk
good night, yami! i wish you luck with the girl you like, but just remember take it slow, it's easier that way!
I'm really really glad, Yami ^_^ And yes. Sleep is definitely on the agenda. Gnight, my lovelies <3 Sent from my Inspire 4g using Tapatalk
haha yes, but remember you're just starting to talk to her and hopefully get to know her. don't go making out with her immediately. and i think i'd better be sleeping now too, good night everypony! i will talk to you all tomorrow
